In my full party outfit, with my host mother and father:
Korité is a big deal here, one of the biggest holidays of the year. However, I soon learned that the "grand fete" essentially consists of sitting around, having lots of visitors, talking, and eating. Given all the talk leading up to it, I was expecting more of a party- celebrating, dancing, etc., but in reality the celebration was much more relaxing and simple. I really enjoyed this take on a party, where the point is enjoying the company of close friends and family, while eating a lot of food. It was a bit difficult in the beginning, as I clearly did not know any of those visiting and can not understand rapid fire discussions in a mix of french and wolof (only a word or phrase here or there, but nothing coherent). However, later on several other American students stopped by to eat with us, and ended up staying for 4 or 5 hours. We just sat around with my host brothers and some family and neighbors, eating and talking, and it was a relief for me to feel as if I could understand language again! It changed my idea of what a party is- sometimes it is so much more enjoyable to take it easy and discuss than put unnecessary effort into having a good time! And I think I certainly gained "cool" points among my host brothers; they seemed to be very pleased with the American girls that I invited over.
With Marie and Daba:
We ate a very large meal, rice with vegetables, eggs, and chicken, which was absolutely delicious. Then we sat around and drank ataya.
Well, I'm off to Wolof, so more later!
My full outfit, hair shawl and shoes included:
Beautiful! Hard to believe how quickly your party outfit was created. I love the choice of fabric.
ReplyDeleteI also love the ideas you are learning - slowing down - the whole tea thing, being willing to relax and enjoy instead of 'trying' so hard. I can not help but wonder if the no moon siting was to try and separate and be different....hmmm.
Yeah, I do feel as if the refusal to see the moon was more of a religious statement than a legitimate excuse, kind of reveals the power of religion in society here. And the outfit was a big hit among my family!
ReplyDeletewhat a fabulous outfit Emma!
ReplyDelete